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Why do non-virgins make fun of virgins, especially me and my bf?

Why do non-virgins make fun of virgins, especially me and my bf? Topic: Video game case stand
June 17, 2019 / By Hester
Question: Well first of all, I'm 19, my boyfriend is 18. We're both virgins and don't wanna have sex until we're older and married. I don't wanna risk accidentally getting pregnant before I'm married and at this age, the only protection that's 100% is just not doing it at all. We don't do sexual stuff, we're more of the fun type who play video games, go on computer, watch movies, etc, instead. Anyways people our age are always teasing. It's true we say we're proud to be virgins and wait and even my bf stood up for me and said that to their faces but anyways why do young non-virgins tend to pick on young virgins? Their peer pressure never changes our minds, we're gonna stick to our word and promise of waiting but I just wanna know why so many teens and young adults think that your a loser if your a virgin? I know virgins have more strength because they can wait but anyways, you get what I'm saying.
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Eartha Eartha | 6 days ago
People who are virgins are rare these days which I think is sad. I think too many people rush into sex and they really understand what sex really means. It's not just sex it's sharing a part of their soul with another person, something intimate. Why do people make fun of virgins? I think maybe b/c they may feel superior to virgins. Maybe they think that since you are a virgin it is because no one will have sex with you when that isn't the case. When you do have sex it will mean so much more to you then it does to people your age who aren't virgins. I commend you and your b/f and that you are virgins. Don't let the pressure get to you. I was a virgin until I got married and to share that part of me with my husband was the best thing ever. But you know even if you and your b/f weren't virgins people would just find something else to make fun of you for. I'd continue to do what you are doing and ignore them and be happy for being you.
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Eartha Originally Answered: Why do non-virgins make fun of virgins, especially me and my bf?
People who are virgins are rare these days which I think is sad. I think too many people rush into sex and they really understand what sex really means. It's not just sex it's sharing a part of their soul with another person, something intimate. Why do people make fun of virgins? I think maybe b/c they may feel superior to virgins. Maybe they think that since you are a virgin it is because no one will have sex with you when that isn't the case. When you do have sex it will mean so much more to you then it does to people your age who aren't virgins. I commend you and your b/f and that you are virgins. Don't let the pressure get to you. I was a virgin until I got married and to share that part of me with my husband was the best thing ever. But you know even if you and your b/f weren't virgins people would just find something else to make fun of you for. I'd continue to do what you are doing and ignore them and be happy for being you.

Celosia Celosia
Don't worry, I didn't sleep around while all of my friends had boyfriends or were sleeping with one or two guys in a week. I used to get called things all the time, like teaser, frigid, etc. etc. But I know I never called any of my friends sluts or easy or anything like that, because I know it is all about personal choice. A lot of my friends couldn't hold down a long term relationship because they would go and have sex and then realize the next day that the guy wasn't going to hang around for a relationship. You both do what is in your hear and your gut feeling - no matter what anyone says or teases you with. Just laugh it off, they are just wishing they could get their virginity back!!!!! It's called jealousy. p.s. I am happily married now with 2 kids and a very stable loving marriage, we did sleep together before marriage but we did wait until we had a stable relationship before going further.
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Annona Annona
You have you head on pretty straight! Enjoy each others time, and engage in common likes! The kids who comment, really just want to share information, they aren't so surprised you are holding out, they are more confused at why they didn't! Especially the new ones, as the first few times...yuk, yuk, and yuk again..really... Abstinence is definitely the only 100% protection is true also. Plus, college, and life in general takes enough energy! Sex is like a baby, if you don't have it you really don't miss it! I"m sure by now your bf knows how to take care of the issue if it comes up (no pun intended) by himself! Stick to your guns, and teas back with a big "ooh..keep having sex guys, don't forget the protection!! Good luck 2 U, and I hope I wasn't too forward
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Yehowah Yehowah
because they think it's fun to sleep around! Ignore them and keep your word. i mean they're probably gonna get pregnant and not even know who's the daddy lol cuz they like to have sex alot. you're right about waiting, and it's something that you can never get the first time back right, and God forbid if you end up with somebody else, you're gonna look back and say "i wish i havent had sex with my ex bf and that my first time was with my hubby or the person i love now" so dont worry not many people have the strength to wait. good job
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Shelton Shelton
I think it's great you two are waiting. I wish you the best of luck; I am glad that you guys are not following in the footsteps of most teens. When you two get married and have sex, it will be wonderful, just the way God intended it to be. I would tell you to stand your ground and all of that, but I can already tell you are strong enough to stand and you are already making the right choices. I hope your parents are proud of you, because I don’t even know you and I am.
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