Topic: Vocabulary research articles
July 17, 2019 / By Ida Question:
I don't really have a question - more like commentary to those in the ttc world. I don't think anyone could give anybody any better advice in this whole game other than be patient. However, if you have been anywhere near trying to conceive as some of us have - patience is not in your vocabulary. You want a pregnancy test that will give you a 100% accurate result the day after ovulation stops. That way you don't go insane and start taking the short bus to work/school because you have gone mental with every pain, twinge, smell, thought, fluctuation in weight, or that gas that might come up or out from time to time. There is nothing more frustrating on this planet than to hear from someone - just keep trying - it will happen when its meant to - or just have sex. What the heck do people think you are doing when you are trying to conceive - playing bridge? Come on - we all know we are having sex - we have become acrobatics at it - if you stand on your head with your feet pointing south and west and he ejacuates in you at the rate of 2.6 seconds it will work - well we have all tried that and heard those myths and still we read each and every story hoping to find some clue as to something we haven't done, tried, thought, prayed for, cried about, yelled about, or just plain drove 2 hours away to get.
I guess my point about this whole question/blog is this:
I know every life is precious, every bfp is a reason to celebrate, and every bfn is a reason for a tear, after all you have lived your life in seconds, not days, weeks or months counting down to that due date of AF. She has become our boogyman in adulthood. The one you fear the most coming - sometimes worse than death - because at least in death it would be easier to cope - because you know there is no hope.
So back to the question sorry - How do we not lose hope, in a hopeless world.
After countless dollars we have spent on any and every and I mean EVERY trick known to man to conceive, we still strive to have that completement in our life .
So to all those out there in ttc land - we are all in this together - as each one of us struggles through another year coming to a close and a new one opening up new possibilities I say this to you : Face each day as if it were your last. Enjoy every moment with those around you. Laugh at the stupidest things - even if its your ability to write your name in the dust on your tv. Love the person you have yelled at, cursed, hated under your breath because he hasn't made it happen - after all he is only human to. Hug the ones that you love, for they may not be there tomorrow. Remember, time marches on - so treasure all these things and enjoy the ride - life only occurs once.
To all the ladies who are new to the ttc world - from one who has been there for a while - do yourself a favor and check out as many websites, articles, and books as you can on fertility. It will help you soo much and teach you all that you need to know about whats going on with your body.
I am sorry to say this because I have been one of those on here asking the ridiculous questions - but it is frustrating to see the question posted "When will I get pregnant" ! If anyone of us on yahoo answers knew that - we wouldn't be here looking for support from other ttc couples.
I know its frustrating when you don't know whats going on with your body and it helps to have people to ask - just make sure you are doing your homework as well.
You never know if you will find something out that someone hasn't found out yet or researched.
It always helps to have directions on your destination and a road map instead of driving without headlights into the fog.
I am off my soapbox now. :)
Edyth | 6 days ago
No you are on the money . I know been ttc for 9month going on 10.... and every month feels like someone punch me in the stomach., it was so easy before I already have two kids youngest one is 8 years old. and now I just want to scream , so I pray yet another month that this is my month ... I really do hope the best for you and keep your head up as we always do.
I am a Christian and I uncover not anything fake in those statements taken from the Holy Book Curan. I recognize Islam and take delivery of Allah (God). But I take delivery of that to take any lifestyles is displeasing to God(Allah) even in self protection or protection of my loved ones. And if God must see have compatibility to experiment me then He will recognize I love Him with my entire middle and soul and this on my own gets me to Paradise wherein there can be some distance much less Muslims and Christians than both believes.
That was amazing, thank you so much, you have put the whole "ttc world" into perspective & its nice to know I am not the only one feeling this way
Thank you so much for that i needed that...now I going to leave this all alone once again enjoy my holidays and my family
Originally Answered: Seeking Free Birth Records?
Genealogy doesn't need money to buy subscriptions, however it does need time and care and research regardless of if you throw money at it or not....the whole point of building a family tree is that it consists of ONLY your ancestors or all you are doing is collecting names and I will tell you copy and pasting names from online without proving each and every ancestor will 100% not get you your ancestors...so you will like many have a large impressive looking tree and the people in it are nothing at all to do with you..rather pointless!
So you either want your ancestors in your tree and are prepared to research and invest the TIME to do that and the CARE to check each and every record or you want an impressive tree.......... if it is the latter than write anything down, any name, date place as it will be no different to many who think genealogy can be done in 3 months and by throwing money at it.....it can't.
There is a poster who constantly ask silly questions about "29th cousin 14 times removed relationships" and " I am 14th cousins to the royal family Uk, does that mean I am royalty" and I am related to Selina Gomez who is my 12th cousin 7 times removed" but hasn't a clue about any research methods at all, it is all copy and paste from online trees and attention seeking behaviour, as she then asks "how to i find out when my grandmother was born" if you want YOUR ancestors in YOUR tree then lots of hard research, proving each and every person, cross referencing of all records each record each and every one of them generated during their lifetime, you certainly don't need to throw money at that, you don't need subscription accounts but you do need time...so in 20 years from now you will then have a tree of YOUR ancestors......................