Muslims: Can u help me pls for allah sake? i m going in depressions? help me?
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May 21, 2019 / By Elfreda Question:
ok, so i was engaged for for four years with a guy who was alchohol and drug addicted, i left him some months ago and now its over, when i was engaged to him i was 29 and now i turned 34, i m depressed a lot, i lives withmy step mom who is very cruel, i started praying for marriage when i was 17 years , and now i m 34, i got engaged several time in this period( from 17 to 34) but they didnot lasted much, being old i dont feel now anyone purpose me as all guys wants youngs girls. pls help me, any dua. anything which i could do? pls helpmy step mother everyday mentally torture me, abuse me a lot, what shud i do?i m so much confused cant concentrate at anything, feels like world is ended to me. feels very depressed
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Cheyanne | 7 days ago
Assalam o alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,
Please don't loose hope and duly read my answer which will insh'Allah help you deal with the depression you face at the moment:
After reading that I hope you will find some calm, and reason to understand, and believe that Allah swt in the maintainer of our affairs, and Indeed His Plan is The Best.
SO Trust Him and Put your faith in Him and turn to Him ever repentant and submissive to His will and commandments.
As for duas:
Just make them SINCERELY and try to back them up with righteous actions done for the sake of Allah swt alone.
(Jazakallahu khairan for trusting us, ur brothers and sisters in faith and humanity, and giving us the opportunity to respond to you in fair manners. Do please remember to pray for us all).
One I'd recommend, duly would be :
Do please check it out.
@Whispers of satan:
Cure them with worship and adhkaar (supplications/remembrance of Allah within your thoughts, actions and with your tongue).
Cure her 'bad attitude' by being most kind/dutiful in your own character / manner.
Reply to her evil with GOOD from your side.
Indeed, this is a sure way to deal with such people! (try it and see the change within just a few days! and patiently persevere in doing good to your mom and doing extra chores to help her out, and please her in manners most suited).
@World is ended:
These are whispers of satan, intended to make you loose focus upon the Purpose of your Creation and the relationship you have with your Master and Lord.
In case you seek further help, do please contact me.
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Keep Patience, InshAllah, Allah has decided someone better for you, Allah Does everything for a good reason :)
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You are not the problem. There’s nothing wrong with you. You walk this earth with a burden that would crush most women, and you appear to be doing remarkably well.
Just remember, you are not the problem, your culture is the problem:
This is how Islam treats its women:
-Tabari I:280: "Allah said, 'It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.' Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid."
-Hadis 789: An ***, a pig, a Jew, a Magian and a woman annuls a prayer.
-Tabari IX:113: "Allah permits you to shut them (women) in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Quran."
-The UN’s GEM (Gender Empowerment Measure) ranks nations by women’s equality. Muslim nations rank at the bottom.
-1/31/07 UK Policy Exchange poll of what young muslims want: Sharia law, 40%; execute apostates, 36%; women to be veiled, 75%
-2/08 United Nations Report (un.org/en/women/endviolence): Mainly in Muslims nations, over 130 million girls and women alive today have undergone FGM (Female Genital Mutilation); each year 2 million girls are subjected to FMG.
-United Nations Report, 2002: "The report of the Special Rapporteur concerning cultural practices in the family that are violent towards women (E/CN.4/2002/83), indicated that honour killings had been reported in Egypt, Jordan, Lebanon, Morocco, Pakistan, the Syrian Arab Republic, Turkey, Yemen, and other Mediterranean and Persian Gulf countries, and that they had also taken place in western countries such as France, Germany and the United Kingdom, within migrant communities."
-1/29/07 Daily Telegraph UK: 75% of British Muslims believe that women should wear veils.
-12/5/10 LA Times: A new Pew Research Center poll shows that majorities in Pakistan, Egypt, Jordan and Nigeria would favor changing the current laws to allow stoning as a punishment for adultery, hand amputation for theft and death for those who convert from Islam to another religion.
-12/3/11 APF, London: Muslim honor crimes increased 47% compared to 2009. The attacks included murder, mutilation, beatings, abduction and acid attacks.
From the United Nations sponsored 2002 Arab Human Development Report (arab-hdr.org):
-The utilization of Arab women’s capabilities through political and economic participation remains the lowest in the world
-About 65 million adult Arabs are illiterate, two thirds of them women
-Illiteracy rates are much higher than in much poorer countries
-The United Nations Development Program (UNDP) includes GEM (gender empowerment measurement) which reveals that women suffer “a glaring deficit” in women’s empowerment. Among regions of the world the Arab region ranks next to last as measured by GEM
-The number of illiterate people is still increasing, to the extent that Arab countries embark upon the twenty-first century burdened by over 60 million illiterate adults, the majority of whom are women
-Other, more cultural behaviours common in the Arab world can also have an adverse health impact. These include intermarriage between close relatives, promotion of early marriage, and female circumcision
-High maternal mortality (death during child birth) is a key health challenge facing most Arab countries.
I feel sorry for you.
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