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What to do - please advice?

What to do - please advice? Topic: How to write a good night message to your boyfriend
June 17, 2019 / By Chauncy
Question: I dream a lot about him day and night.. I do not know if he things about me too. I want back my ex boyfriend and i do not know how to proceed. We last time were meeting 8 months ago. I was writing him email on new year to greet him and to ask him "how are you'. he was replying instantly to me. I did not expect he would reply to me ! I was greeting him on Easter he replied o me. I do know he has not a girlfriend now and secondly, i do not want to be as a stalker if I will write him again... but i really feel i still like him so much and if we discuss perhaps we can pass the misunderstanding between us. What is your advice to write/call him to ask him more about him? also i do not want to be hurt by him! I would like to contact him on messenger when he is online!!! Please advice! Thank you! PS I am not lonely at all, I mean I am alway hanging out with someone, and I have tried to date but I just did not like anyone like him, all of them
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Alvy Alvy | 5 days ago
Hey! Wow you really seem to like this guy! I mean...you dream about him every day and night! Thats good...for a start you guys are chatting normally! Thats good! Well..you know what to do!! Keep in contact in messages or call...ask him hows he's doing... his life...and get closer....but i recomment that...as you said...you dont want to be hurt by him. so dont get TOO close:D if you think he likes you...go ahead! You cant wait for him forever for him right? so why wait! Good luck!
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Alvy Originally Answered: What to do - please advice?
Hey! Wow you really seem to like this guy! I mean...you dream about him every day and night! Thats good...for a start you guys are chatting normally! Thats good! Well..you know what to do!! Keep in contact in messages or call...ask him hows he's doing... his life...and get closer....but i recomment that...as you said...you dont want to be hurt by him. so dont get TOO close:D if you think he likes you...go ahead! You cant wait for him forever for him right? so why wait! Good luck!
Alvy Originally Answered: What to do - please advice?
Message him around a bit more - ask him how is life is going - who he's seeing (even though you already know) it will shift the conversation to a place you wanna be. If he's being friendly and you think it's the right time ask him for his number (even if you have it, so you'll know he's OK with you calling) and say you wanna chat. Then after about 2 or 3 phone calls ask him about getting together. don't rush in, take it step by step as i advised. GOOD LUCK <333

Thrud Thrud
Message him around a bit more - ask him how is life is going - who he's seeing (even though you already know) it will shift the conversation to a place you wanna be. If he's being friendly and you think it's the right time ask him for his number (even if you have it, so you'll know he's OK with you calling) and say you wanna chat. Then after about 2 or 3 phone calls ask him about getting together. don't rush in, take it step by step as i advised. GOOD LUCK <333
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Roseanne Roseanne
well it wont hurt to ask for his msn to talk online, its not stalkerish at all.. just say it'll be easier to talk on msn, cus it is. And if he replied instantly bak to you, it shows he doesnt hate your guts and still wants to keep in contact with you, and the fact he replied instantly shows he probli doesnt have a gf. And the fact your scared to be hurt by him, isnt an excuse. we fall in love giving the othur person the ability to hurt us, thats the point of bein in love. There's no point in missin him n wantin to be with him if when you guys are given the chance to be together, you bak out cus ur afraid. Cus i tell you, its not worth trying.
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Roseanne Originally Answered: Need advice on my novel?
Don't do flashbacks, don't talk too much about their past, don't talk about the death of their parents, don't repeat anything... I really don't see why you want a long first chapter... First chapters are there to OPEN/START the book, not tell the whole story. The reason why i told you not to add all of the crap listed above is because that would be INFORMATION and dumping such important information, obviously of no small proportions, would practically ruin your first chapter and bore the reader. Nobody actually cares about the characters in the FIRST chapter... Give the audience some time to get to know them, to bond with them and THEN hit them with the sad past... If you want the reader to get emotional over the book thats the way around it. Save the death of their parents for a nightmare or terrible flashback later on, like third, fourth chapter or keep it a secret until later on... Thought if you are impatient to unravel their death talk about it in the second chapter and make sure it is happens as action, not as information... That's where the flashback/nightmare come in. Information dumps are practically your worst enemy, especially in the first few chapters. When I'm buying a book I read half of the first chapter and if it's one of those: It was the first of may, 1995. My family was dead, the whole world was dead, I was the only one left etc etc I run screaming from it... It is both annoying, as interest-less as white paint and as unnecessary as a headache. You'd do well to remember and start all of your works with action, as you have now. Information should unravel SLOWLY, in SMALL pieces, through dialog/thoughts/reactions/actions and the likes. (AKA nightmares, diary entries, opening up to somebody though you should be careful with this one and last but not least the personage's character altered AFTER the event taking place.) Another thing. Short first chapters doesn't mean a thing... Well, probably it DOES say that the writer is rather eager to get it on with the depths, which isn't bad... I've read first chapters as long as five sentences, two paragraphs and fifty pages... Heck, I prefer books without chapters. Just keep writing and don't let that bother you. Take care, good luck.

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