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How to become more "outgoing" and "social"?

How to become more "outgoing" and "social"? Topic: Talk about homework with classmates
June 17, 2019 / By Berenice
Question: hi im 16 and ill be a junior in highschool. i want to be more outgoing and make new friends and hangout with lots of different people. i also want to get invited to more "parties" and stuff like that.... i have friends that dont really go to parties and then i have friends that do, but until now ive always mostly hungout with the ones who dont go, but im tired of just sitting at home i want to hangout with the friends that do go! any advice on how i can hangout with that group more often? thanks! sry this is kinda of confusing haha
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Adrianne Adrianne | 3 days ago
Let me get this straight. So you want: 1) To become friends with the party clique 2) Become more outgoing so you can become friends with them Am I right? Okay... Do you already know who is part of the party clique? If you do, figure out what sports they play or what clubs they are part of. Join clubs and play on sports teams. They may not accept you if you are not outgoing such as themselves (party cliques are usually very social and outgoing). HOW TO BECOME SOCIAL* Just talk to anyone and everyone from homeroom to last period. To meet more people, start small. You don't have to start by talking to the most popular clique. Start out by talking to your librarian or elderly or your dentist or doctor or anyone along those lines. Try random questions, ask them about their profession, if they have kids, if they enjoy working, etc... I know this sounds very strange but it helps to improve conversation skills. Then try to talk to someone who your interact with everyday. Perhaps a classmate or a neighbor or your teacher. I PROMISE that the more you talk to people, the more you will feel less shy. Start small and work your way up. More talking: Get on the phone and ask a classmate about a homework question. **You will NOT sound silly: people love to talk!** HOW TO BECOME OUTGOING* Talking will help you become more outgoing, but other ways are to be louder and to get over your self-consciousness. If you fall, laugh about it. If you make a fool of yourself, laugh about it. Don't be so self-conscious and relax. If you see a hott guy in the room, just smile and introduce yourself. If you ask a guy out and he says no, laugh about it and pretend it wasn't a big deal. To become louder, just get comfortable with your voice. Try screaming (into a pillow if your parents don't like loud noises) every morning "Good Morning!". You also need to look friendly! Don't sit in the corner slouching, smile and put your arms by your side so you look inviting. Good Luck (: -Catherine
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Adrianne Originally Answered: How to become more "outgoing" and "social"?
Let me get this straight. So you want: 1) To become friends with the party clique 2) Become more outgoing so you can become friends with them Am I right? Okay... Do you already know who is part of the party clique? If you do, figure out what sports they play or what clubs they are part of. Join clubs and play on sports teams. They may not accept you if you are not outgoing such as themselves (party cliques are usually very social and outgoing). HOW TO BECOME SOCIAL* Just talk to anyone and everyone from homeroom to last period. To meet more people, start small. You don't have to start by talking to the most popular clique. Start out by talking to your librarian or elderly or your dentist or doctor or anyone along those lines. Try random questions, ask them about their profession, if they have kids, if they enjoy working, etc... I know this sounds very strange but it helps to improve conversation skills. Then try to talk to someone who your interact with everyday. Perhaps a classmate or a neighbor or your teacher. I PROMISE that the more you talk to people, the more you will feel less shy. Start small and work your way up. More talking: Get on the phone and ask a classmate about a homework question. **You will NOT sound silly: people love to talk!** HOW TO BECOME OUTGOING* Talking will help you become more outgoing, but other ways are to be louder and to get over your self-consciousness. If you fall, laugh about it. If you make a fool of yourself, laugh about it. Don't be so self-conscious and relax. If you see a hott guy in the room, just smile and introduce yourself. If you ask a guy out and he says no, laugh about it and pretend it wasn't a big deal. To become louder, just get comfortable with your voice. Try screaming (into a pillow if your parents don't like loud noises) every morning "Good Morning!". You also need to look friendly! Don't sit in the corner slouching, smile and put your arms by your side so you look inviting. Good Luck (: -Catherine

Thadeus Thadeus
Mostly bad things are happening at high school parties. After 4 teenagers, I know this. My 15 year old sophomore is not even allowed to go to parties. Getting together in small groups and someone's house where the parents are home is a great alternative. Invite some people over you like. Join a club, try out for a play, work on the school yearbook or newspaper - these are great ways to make new friends. You only need a few good friends - popularity is highly overrated!
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Premislas Premislas
Becoming more outgoing and social is by sharing the same interests as the other person. I would love to be able to go up to someone and talk about something out of the blue, but that's sorta not the answer. If someone has something that you have when you go back, just talk about it. And if they go to parties, go along. Really, once you get older your life wouldn't be focused on parties, but work and reality.
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Major Major
Friend, You realize the Indian Politics and politicians. The SCAMS are sprouting up one after the other ...all Multi crore Scams. probably the most humans in High Positions are concerned in it.We are studying in information Papers and in addition seeing the minister resigning and sitting in prison. So whilst the insiders are INVOLVED , HOW do you anticipate the Lokpal Bill to Become a legislation or Ordinance? Never ...Similarly , excellent humans might be Crying and doing deekshaas .....the thick skinned Govt,, won't brain the ones , it has such a lot of matters to shield. So you can also name it JOKEPAL. it's my opinion.
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Jep Jep
Your focus shouldn't be on partying, it should be on getting yourself "out there" more. The only way to do that is to force yourself to step outside of your comfort zone... that doesn't mean you have to give up your morales... you are responsible for your life and your choices.
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Jep Originally Answered: How to be more outgoing?
You sound a lot like me. I promised myself this every year. Don't be nervous! You sound like a really nice girl. People love compliments and they love to talk about themselves. Sit next to a group of people who might be outgoing, but overall nice. Ask about everyone summer and if anyone did anything fun. Smile and try to add comments to a conversation ("oh I like that too" "sounds fun") If you have assigned seating try your best to talk to people around you even if you really don't have anything in common ("did you get the homework?" "when do you have lunch" Do you really like Italian so far?" ) To show your teacher you are outgoing answer questions and look alive in class. Confidently say Good Morning/ afternoon to the teacher daily. When you leave say have a great day! Ask questions in class even if you know the answer. You don't need to be obnoxious to be outgoing. Just have confidence. It is a language course and you will be encouraged to talk. If the teacher picks on you for your personality talk to the teacher. Say you are trying your hardest but you feel there are students who are hindering the way you learn due to the fact they are overpowering and loud. Good luck! Just keep talking and smiling it may seem silly at first but it will give you the confidence needed to ace the course :)

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