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Problems with in laws, help?

Problems with in laws, help? Topic: How to write an rsvp email
June 15, 2019 / By Deanna
Question: I cant stand my in laws, especially my mother in law. I feel she doesn't contribute to society (she sits as home as a soccer mom/housewife) and Im sick of her arrogant husband who tells everyone he's rich and has a big house. The mother also ignores me and refuses to have a relationship with me because in the past I told her how I felt about them and that I didnt want a relationship (this was like 2 yrs ago). Then I wrote her a really nice/cordial email telling her that I looked up to her and wanted a relationship (of course that wasn't taken into consideration the other night). The other night I was talking on the phone with a relative and told her that I cant stand these people and they were once again being unfriendly so that's how I'm going to act towards them. Suddenly my husband and his dad jumped up and started screaming, threatening, and cursing at me. The mother didn't say much, just a smart alec remark from time to time and an eye roll constantly. My sons (my son from a prev. marriage)'s birthday party is coming up and the mom has already rsvp'd all of them. It will be at my moms house, and I asked her to make that decision if she wants it there or not. She said she did not appreciate his dad cussing me like he did, even if I did start an argument in their home and feels that he will come to her house fighting and cussing like he did and possibly doesn't want them there. What is right? I'm sick of their flip flopping around that they want to get to know me, then when I get to the door they dont even say hi and say the worlds problems are all caused by me and Im to blame for everything. Should we tell them that we feel they shouldnt attend my kid's party because of my FIL's cussing in front of his own children and to me?
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Bridgette Bridgette | 4 days ago
You don't have to like your in laws But they are your husbands parents who deserve respect your attitude is childish and selfish for the sake of your kids and your husband put your feelings aside and at least try to get on with them
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Bridgette Originally Answered: Problems with in laws, help?
You don't have to like your in laws But they are your husbands parents who deserve respect your attitude is childish and selfish for the sake of your kids and your husband put your feelings aside and at least try to get on with them
Bridgette Originally Answered: Problems with in laws, help?
Okay then... "told her how I felt about them and that I didn't want a relationship (this was like 2 yrs ago" - looks like you got what you wanted... You are a sucky daughter in law. Seriously. Why don't you pull your head out of you @ss and try mending fences and pull off a little family harmony?

Algoma Algoma
Okay then... "told her how I felt about them and that I didn't want a relationship (this was like 2 yrs ago" - looks like you got what you wanted... You are a sucky daughter in law. Seriously. Why don't you pull your head out of you @ss and try mending fences and pull off a little family harmony?
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Tyrell Tyrell
You can't stand them, you didn't want a relationship with them, now you do, then you don't... Remind me who is flip flopping and being disrespectful here, because it looks like it's you.
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Tyrell Originally Answered: Why did Zimmerman say he knew nothing about stand your ground laws, but he got an A in the class?
Zimmerman is a stupid liar. There are all kinds of conflicts with his version of events and the physical evidence. You cannot shoot someone point blank in the chest if the are sitting on top of you. And if you shoot someone sitting on you, their blood will be all over your shirt. If someone breaks your nose (and there is no proof of that), your blood will be all over your shirt. No blood on his shirt. All kinds of lies. I think he assumed that no one would check into his lies because he is white and the victim is black and because daddy is a judge. And he was right - until people started hollering about it. Now his lies will hang him.

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