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I absolutely HATE my mother! She makes me want to kill myself! What do I do?

I absolutely HATE my mother! She makes me want to kill myself! What do I do? Topic: How to write a speech about my mother
June 20, 2019 / By Jordon
Question: My mom is ruining my life!!! I've thought so hard on what to do! I've even thought on suicide but I don't want to do that. I wish I could talk to her but she refuses to listen. She hates me so much!!! I've even thought about calling the police on her. What should I do?! (It's a stupid question I know but I'm desperate!) You should had seen what she did!!! I was standing on a wall and a boy walks up to me and puts his hand on the wall next to me. He's kinda close but not too close. There are some other boys around but they aren't close. My mom drives up and she gets out and is like, "Don't you ever back my daughter up against a wall! Don't you ever touch her again!" And goes off!!! He didn't back me up on the wall! He didn't even touch me!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHH!!!! It' made me so mad (although I wanted to laugh because his face was like "WHAT??" LOL!). She also does the longest speeches about how I'm a ho and I don't need to be messing with boys and crap! My sister's the one who's messing wit them!!! I understand these things but she just needs to calm down. All she's doing is making me want to be a ho and mess with boys so I can make her mad! She also yells at me for no reason! It's so annoying!
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Georgene Georgene | 6 days ago
You do not say how old you are but would hazard a guess and think you are in your teens or early twenties. Growing up can be very painful for a lot of youngsters and being a parent of a youngster can be a nightmare so this nothing new. Parents are given no guidelines on how to be a parent let alone a good one and so it is, they do make mistakes - I know I did and many of them. It is through trial-and-error that we parents try to bring our children up as best as we can and hope they will turn into decent adults. What about using some of your savings and buying her a nice bunch of flowers? Get her a nice card with decent words inside and then write in it "to Mom with much love and then your name". Just give it to her with a smile. If she asks you why you are doing this, you can tell her you thought she would enjoy the gift and because you love her. It is important you try and defuse the situation by showing you love and respect her. It is important too to be gentle with her in your voice and behaviour. Another think you can suggest is you go out for a coffee and do a bit of window-shopping. Or go for a walk and talk to one another like two intelligent human beings and not as mother and daughter. Look at this situation from your mother's angle too. It could be she has things on her mind, she may be unhappy in herself, she may be tired - it can be a number of many things. You can defuse the situation by being helpful at home - do the washing-up after meals or help with the cooking or keeping your room clean and tidy. Growing up is a painful time and being a parent is not easy either so if you can show your Mom you do care and that you want the two of you to talk like two intelligent people, then you are half way there. Talking about committing suicide is silly and solves nothing nor does going to the police either - they will send you home feeling rather silly I expect. You make no mention of your Dad but perhaps you have another member of the family with whom you can share your difficulties and seek their guidance and advice if necessary. Good luck...........
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Georgene Originally Answered: I absolutely HATE my mother! She makes me want to kill myself! What do I do?
You do not say how old you are but would hazard a guess and think you are in your teens or early twenties. Growing up can be very painful for a lot of youngsters and being a parent of a youngster can be a nightmare so this nothing new. Parents are given no guidelines on how to be a parent let alone a good one and so it is, they do make mistakes - I know I did and many of them. It is through trial-and-error that we parents try to bring our children up as best as we can and hope they will turn into decent adults. What about using some of your savings and buying her a nice bunch of flowers? Get her a nice card with decent words inside and then write in it "to Mom with much love and then your name". Just give it to her with a smile. If she asks you why you are doing this, you can tell her you thought she would enjoy the gift and because you love her. It is important you try and defuse the situation by showing you love and respect her. It is important too to be gentle with her in your voice and behaviour. Another think you can suggest is you go out for a coffee and do a bit of window-shopping. Or go for a walk and talk to one another like two intelligent human beings and not as mother and daughter. Look at this situation from your mother's angle too. It could be she has things on her mind, she may be unhappy in herself, she may be tired - it can be a number of many things. You can defuse the situation by being helpful at home - do the washing-up after meals or help with the cooking or keeping your room clean and tidy. Growing up is a painful time and being a parent is not easy either so if you can show your Mom you do care and that you want the two of you to talk like two intelligent people, then you are half way there. Talking about committing suicide is silly and solves nothing nor does going to the police either - they will send you home feeling rather silly I expect. You make no mention of your Dad but perhaps you have another member of the family with whom you can share your difficulties and seek their guidance and advice if necessary. Good luck...........

Della Della
Since I am not convinced your mother is ruining you life or even that she hates you. I would ask you to consider why you are so against your mother. Be honest . On a piece of paper draw a line and on one side write everything you dislike about her and the things you like about her on the other. Then emphasize the things you like about As for suicide I believe there are alot more ways to deal with this.Revenge isnt going to ge you anywhere. No one can make anyone else wnt to kill themselves.
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Bunty Bunty
Hello Holly, Moms can sometimes be difficult to deal with but you have to stop saying you hate your mom. Don't feel your mind with such hatred for your mom. Its obvious that you dont hate your mom be youcause you wouldn't be writing for help. Please don't evter say tthat you want to commit suicide because of differences with your mom. That breaks my heart to hear you say that. My relationship with my mom was not always the best; and I'm sure I probably thought she was ruining my life. However, now that I am older she calls me everyday, and she always wants me to come visit her. I never would have thought I would choose to hang around her. I didn't think she liked me much either. We were always at each others throat, but something changed. I realized my mom had a hard time expressing how much she loved me. It always came out wrong. It seemed like she didn't want me happy. She was just dealing with some issues with herself and was always scared I would make some of the mistakes she did. She saw herself in me and that probably scared her a litttle, because she didn't want me to inherit the things she didn't like about herself. Im sure I did anyway, but now I get it because I dont want my boys to inherit what I dont like about myself. I just have to take a different approach than my mom. My advice to you would be find a way to step back and see where she is coming from and try to understand her. Find a way to love her, even if its just because its your mom, thats a start. Then find a second reason. Show her and tell her that you love her even when its hard, then she will start to love you back, because you have taught her to do so. Some people need to be taught how to love, even parents. My son complements me even when I'm mad and I have to check myself and calm down because I realize he loves me despite of my attitude. I hope you can find a way to love her and I especially hope she loves you back I'm sure you can use it. Good Luck! You and your mom will be on my mind. When you guys work it out, then you can come back and give somebody else advice.
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Allison Allison
What exactly is she doing? Try to tell her in a calm way that you really need to talk to her, and ask her to hear you out. Things work out a lot better between people if everybody can try to see each other's point of view.
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Uzia Uzia
If it's an all the time thing, where she's basically abusing you, then yeah, call the cops...but if there is no evidence, don't! a person can't be put on trial for the same thing twice, and if she's put on trial, found innocent, then she'll be harder on you. DON'T kill yourself. It'd help us if we knew what kind of things she's doing, though.
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Uzia Originally Answered: Is this wrong to hate my mother?
yes it's wrong to hate your family . but since she doesn't treat you really well i guess you can't help but feel that way about her. it is what is if you don't want her in your life you should write her a letter telling her how you fell and how it hurts you that your relationship is so awful. no one wants to have a reason to hate their mother. good luck =D sorry about your situation

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