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What do you do If your family makes you feel worthless and unwanted?

What do you do If your family makes you feel worthless and unwanted? Topic: Writing letters to close friends and family
July 16, 2019 / By Nettie
Question: So I'm 18 I'm a girl and like back in my early teens I was really unmotivated about life but I turned things around dramatically a couple years ago. My family still acts as though Im the same person I was back then even though I've gotten a few awards for the way I've changed things it's not good enough and when I try to communicate I of course start crying because I'm an emotional person and my fam either 1. Reacts by making fun of me or 2.reacts by yelling I feel trapped ADVICE
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Lunet Lunet | 5 days ago
Since You get Emotional try writing them a letter about how you feel and how it effects You Maybe that will come across better ! or have a close friend or family member tell them
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Lunet Originally Answered: Unwanted family guests during a difficult time?
I would seriously get a hold of your uncle and tell him what is going on. He may not even want to come down after he knows whats up. If he still wants to come tell him he has to stay some were else. Now for your aunt....how much do you like her? It sounds to me like you don't care for her very much. If I were you I would go and talk to her alone as well and tell her she needs to leave and that this is none of her business and it's a personal family matter. The key is to make your house a very uncomfortable place for you aunt so she will want to leave. Does your mom want her gone as well? Maybe you should also have your mom say something to her along with you. If it's you and your mom against your aunt then she will probably go. She needs to be informed that this is embarrassing for your mother and she needs time alone without the whole family watching. You should also go to your dad and shed some light on what he is doing. Because he may not even realize that this inappropriate behavior. Good luck to you and yoru mom.
Lunet Originally Answered: Unwanted family guests during a difficult time?
No the law will not be on your side & there's really nothing you can do about it except tell your dad off. Frankly in your position, I'd tell my dad that he has absolutely no right to bring anyone here, & that he shouldn't during this mess. Unless he wants to humiliate himself further, he should shove a sock in it. If your father is being this big of a dick, he's bringing in people to "back him up" or help him stay in the house. Tell him tha won't work, and that he, his sister, and his brother can leave. If he tries to pull the "family" card, tell him the day he decided to cheat on your mom, he stopped being family.

Kaylee Kaylee
Your family sounds like a bunch of *****. Here is how you get revenge. 1) Be very successful and very rich. 2) Then when you are on TV being interviewed and they ask about your family, tell them you were an orphan. 3) Don't include them in your will or send them birthday presents
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Kaylee Originally Answered: I really do not like my parents.because of them I feel worthless?
I read what you've written and I'm so sorry.. :( I know it hurts you every day but have you tried talking to them? One year ago I had always problems with my parents I didn't want to go at home because when I was with them there was always problems for everything! I was so sad I cried the night... From a little problem born a big problem! Actually I avoid problems with them but when I was angry with them cuz they were annoying if Ii was angry to them they became more angry than me and here we go again... I tried to talk with me but nothing they're proud so AVOID and just don't care about it believe me if you continue like this you'll not get anything you must think at your life! Or try taliking to them it's not right that they don't give you love! Good luck man!
Kaylee Originally Answered: I really do not like my parents.because of them I feel worthless?
It made me so sad to read this, it must be terrible to having this kind of abuse from your parents. The likely hood is that they grew up with a similar kind of abuse. And as a result they don't know how to express them selves the way that is correct for a parent. (Just like the way you treat your dog when you are mad) This obviously doesn't make it ok, and I would suggest you get some help. I'm not sure what help is available to you in the US, but I'm pretty sure you have school councillors. Go speak to yours explaining how things are at home and I'm sure they will be able to tell you what help is available to you.

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