Girlfriends history makes her a hoe?
Topic: Make a conclusion
July 20, 2019 / By Monika Question:
Okay i found out my girlfriend was not a virgin and would lie to her mom just to be with her ex, and now that i know i get hella pissed off when i think about her history, i feel like they had alootta sex together or something, and in result of that her mom now doesn't trust her with me at all!! is there a reason she's like this? does it make her a whore or sex addict? i don't wanna find out she's had lots of sex before because it'll effect me BADLLLLLLYYYY.. anyone Have clues? :(
btw she never wants to talk about this like EVER.. SOOOO IDK :(
Its not that Im a jerk nor anything but i have a history of being heart broken but dealing with girls as virgins, knowing she's the first dated and isn't a virgin makes me insecure.. don't jump to conclusions because you guys don't know me.. it sucks because her mom always wants to know she's gonna be with me and with someone around i get she doesn't want her pregnant but we're not that stupid, past is the past but still effects me..
By the way Vicky, Thanks for understanding me i appreciate it :D
Best Answers: Girlfriends history makes her a hoe?
Lis | 2 days ago
She was with her ex at the time, so her having sex with him doesn't make her a hoe. And even if they weren't together, she's not a hoe if she was committed to him. Even if they "did it a lot". If she was committed to him and had sex because she loved him (and not because she loves sex), she is not a hoe.
As for her mom's lack of trust-- it's understandable. Trust takes a long time to rebuild, and so you two can look at that as a challenge you both need to conquer together. Trust builds back after a while, so just give it time.
It's understandable that you feel a little uncomfortable that she's not a virgin. It would of been better if she told you at the very beginning of your relationship (unless, she did). However, she can't change the fact that she's not a virgin. But she does have another man she loves (you), and you should cherish that and not look poorly on her. She was in a relationship with her ex, after all. However, she should open up to you about any questions you may have regarding her intimate experience with her ex. You're dating her right now and you have the right (and she has the responsibility) to know what happened. So you should confront her about that.
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Originally Answered: Girl in need of girlfriends.?
if you try to be something it will be fake, therefore the friends you make will be fake! in my experiance 80% of girls are backstabbing, vengeful, jealous, and liars. maybe you are better off with guy friends!
once upon a time i had a big crew of friends, but now at 28 i have one really good female friend, i have hung onto her for 13 years! i wouldnt trade her for 100 "fake" friends. or for popularity, or anything! try to find someone who is like you, like your twin from another mother, she will be more valuable than 1000 other girls
i will give you a few theories:
are you like really honest? like brutally? do you like to tell people how to fix their problems, but nicely? cause thats how i am and girls do not like me! it took me a LONG time to figure this out but people cant take me because i am too intense! (the friend i mentioned above is the same way).
do you get really nervous and try too hard? girls sense neediness and they dont like it! all people gravitate toward confidence. act like you could not care less if they like you cause you are too cool for that s*** and they will want to know why you are so cocky! walk around like you are the coolest person to grace the face of the earth!
maybe you are friends with the guys these girls like and they are jealous?
i guess there is a chance you have a personality trait that comes off differently to others, (i make jokes and people take me seriously and think i am a snob or a b****!) if you can find someone who is really honest, or really drunk maybe you can ask them if you have any "abrassive" character traits
Your girlfriend is a garden tool?
There is nothing wrong with sex, so long as it is safe sex.
If she wasn't having protected sex, you might want her to have an STD check before you engage in any sexual activity with her.
Whores have sex for money.
Sex addicts have sex with strangers, because they can't control their urges.
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What's the big deal? Is it because you're a virgin and she's not?
If you're not a virgin, you can hardly criticize her for not being one ... unless you're a jerk.
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Why would you consider her a "hoe"? She's your girlfriend... Rudeness! That was her past forget about it. Just forget about it. It would make things much more easier for you and your girlfriend.
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